Essential virtues that every writer should possess starts with the humility of not knowing, the courage to take chances, the ensuing growth from those missteps, and finally, learning from the experiences of others who have traveled a similar path.
Given the responsibilities brought about by everyday life, finding that perfect moment to learn and reflect has become equally as challenging. I have found a solution—or rather, a compromise—to present itself in the form of podcasts: Podcasts of consequence that can be leisurely consumed during gaps in our respective schedules.
During one such session, I came across a podcast interview featuring Mimi Kwa, a second generation Chinese-Australian, who provided great insight on her writing process and challenges. Later on, I came across a writing prompt in one of her social media posts and was drawn to it instantly.
Life learnings
On her 50th birthday, Mimi spent part of her day writing down 50 things that she had learned in her life. It was an exercise that immediately appealed to me as it would offer me a similar opportunity to reflect on my own life. As of this writing, I have written down about 30 things that I have found significant. Three of which are featured below.
One: For the longest time, I have had this quote featured on my personal website,
"While you’re at home resting, someone out there is working hard." (Gilbert Arenas, Sr.).
As I have matured, I have come to the realization that I cannot—and should not—expect the same level of intensity and commitment from others. Expectations, if any, should always be tempered and center instead on the willingness of that individual to bring their “best effort.”
For as long as an individual brings the necessary effort, then anything is possible.
Two: Be good; Do good; Help others and be of service. Always tell the truth… and be honest, even when no one is looking. That is the true test of character. Remember, your name is your most valuable asset. Once lost, it is something that money cannot buy.
Lastly, always be respectful towards others and find comfort in the hope that they were raised the right way to offer you a similar courtesy.
Three: Do not be “Tipid” (Thrifty) with your love. The reality is: We. Don’t. Know. This may be it. So, make time to say what needs to be said. Not limited to romantic love, an effort should be made to let other people know how much they have touched your life.
With this in mind, Lindol Comics wouldn't exist if it were not for the time, effort, generosity, and understanding of a great many individuals.
On August 31, 2025, fourteen recipients (9 individuals and our 4 retail/online partners) will be honored for their respective contributions in growing the Lindol brand and it’s spin-off titles such as OBIsessions and (From the pages of Lindol comes…) The Imperials.
I can hardly wait! ■